
Work With Jane
Work With Me
If your relationship has reached a point where something has to change, you're in the right place.
Most couples don't come to me because they don't love each other anymore. They come because they've become stuck in patterns they don't know how to change. Conversations go round in circles, resentment has built over time, trust has been damaged, or they've simply drifted apart despite wanting a better relationship.
My role isn't to take sides or decide who's right or wrong.
My role is to help you understand what's really happening beneath the conflict, break the patterns that are keeping you stuck, and give you the practical tools to build a relationship that feels calmer, safer and more connected.
This isn't traditional counselling.
My approach is practical, structured and results-focused.
Rather than simply talking about your problems, we'll identify the patterns that are keeping you stuck, understand why they're happening, and work together to change them.
Every couple I work with receives a personalised, online coaching programme based on their relationship, personalities, and the challenges they're facing. I'll help you gain clarity about what's really driving the problems, create a clear plan, and guide you through the changes needed to create a healthier, happier relationship.
Between sessions, you'll receive practical actions designed to help you put what we've covered into practice. Lasting change doesn't happen by talking about your relationship once every couple of weeks. It happens when you begin thinking, communicating and responding to each other differently in everyday life.
My goal is that by the end of our work together you'll not only understand each other more deeply, but you'll also have the confidence and tools to continue strengthening your relationship long after coaching has finished.
Who I work with
I intentionally work with a small number of couples at any one time.
This allows me to give every couple the time, preparation and support they deserve throughout our work together.
For that reason, I only work with couples who are genuinely committed to improving their relationship.
The couples who achieve the greatest success are those who are willing to:
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Make their relationship a priority.
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Attend sessions consistently.
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Be open, honest and respectful.
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Take responsibility for their own contribution to the relationship.
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Complete the actions between sessions.
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Be willing to try new approaches, even when they feel uncomfortable.
You don't need to have all the answers.
You don't even need to know whether your relationship can be saved.
But you do both need to be willing to engage fully with the process.
The Next Step
Every couple begins by completing the application form below.
This helps me understand your relationship before we meet and ensures we're both confident that my coaching is the right fit for you.
If successful, I will invite you to book a Relationship Strategy Session.
During this session, we'll take an in-depth look at your relationship, identify what's keeping you stuck, and explore the changes that will make the biggest difference. I'll explain exactly how I believe I can help, answer any questions you have, and together we'll decide whether we're the right fit to work together.
I believe every relationship deserves the opportunity to thrive. If you're both prepared to invest in your relationship and commit to the process, I'd love to hear from you.
