Updated: Nov 19, 2022
Do You Have The Skills For a Long-Lasting Loving Relationship?
Many couples don't realise that long-term, loving relationships don't happen on their own until issues arise for them.
Some couples think their relationship should just be happy because they love each other and, that being themselves is enough to sustain the relationship. It might, but in order for a relationship to stay passionate, it needs to develop, grow, and evolve over time.
Dysfunction in a relationship doesn't come instantly; it takes time for these issues to unfold. Putting energy into the relationship in the wrong way can destroy the relationship, the opposite of what you would like it to be.
I see a lot of couples who have been slowly but surely killing their relationship over time, even years in some cases. Some claim to have wasted years making the same mistakes over and over again.
Some people have started using a point system where neither party feels good in the end.
Which counts more, showing love or "winning," in the end? Without love, the victory won't feel all that fantastic, and you might both wind up wondering whether it was really worth it.
So how can you develop the abilities necessary for an enduring, loving relationship? They are not covered in school. The majority of us learn from our parents, however, if they didn't know these things themselves, we can end up picking up negative habits and behaviours.
Most marriages don't have to end.
Many couples simply do not know WHAT they can do to change things or HOW to do it.
You can learn what to do and how to do it in order to succeed, though.
You must discover:
How to listen well and the benefits of deep listening for your relationship
How to have an emotional connection with your partner that satisfies their emotional needs
How to understand yourself in order for you to become who you were meant to be
How to understand your spouse and allow them to be who they are
How to respond to your partner in the manner that they require
How to move past disagreement
How to make plans for a bright future for you both
How to become soul mates and create an unbreakable connection
These are just a few of the techniques I teach couples within my coaching sessions to use to rebuild their relationship.
Now is the time to act if your relationship is struggling. Delay will only worsen the situation. Problems don't go away unless people do something about them.
When would the perfect moment to take action be? If not now then when?
Please book your complimentary consultation here.
I look forward to meeting you,