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What Is Relationship Coaching?

Updated: Jun 10




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I regularly get asked what Relationship Coaching is. The natural 'go to' for many to get support with your marriage is marriage counselling, or couples therapy. There is another, possibly lesser known alternative, though, and that is Relationship Coaching.


Relationship coaching can give you the understanding, tools, and guidance to improve, grow and change your relationship.

It is available for all relationships, from parent and child, couples who have recently met, to couples who have been married for many years.


The sessions can be for one person or a couple. Even when working with couples, they may choose to have sessions on their own as well as together.


The sessions are longer than counselling sessions (90 minutes, or 2 hours) and are productive, pro-active, and are a collaboration of us working together with the shared goal of you creating the relationship that you would love to have with the other person.


I am a Certified Relationship Coach in the UK, and I also offer online relationship coaching.



The Benefits of Relationship Coaching


Transformative Influence on Relationships

Relationship coaching has a transformative influence on couples. It offers tailored strategies to enhance communication and deepen understanding, fortifying connections and nurturing flourishing partnerships. This coaching relationship is a collaborative process that addresses the unique dynamics of each partnership, providing the tools and insights needed to navigate challenges and strengthen their bond.


Communication and Emotional Connection


A key benefit of relationship coaching is the enhancement of communication skills. It spotlights refining these skills, fostering a deeper understanding, reducing misunderstandings, and fostering a more harmonious connection. This focus on communication is crucial as it strengthens emotional bonds, fosters intimacy, and creates a supportive environment for personal and collective growth.


Tailored Coaching and Empowerment


Relationship coaching is not one-size-fits-all; it offers tailored coaching for women and men alike. It empowers individuals to communicate their needs openly and promotes a more balanced and empowered partnership. It equips couples with strategies to navigate obstacles effectively, fostering resilience and building a foundation capable of withstanding the tests of time.


Personal Growth and Self-Awareness


Coaching promotes personal growth and self-awareness by identifying and replacing destructive patterns with healthier alternatives. It provides a safe space to explore emotions and express needs and desires, which is essential for developing a deep understanding of oneself and one's partner.


Focus on Goals and Future Planning


Coaching helps maintain focus on relationship goals, prevent deviations, and improve relationship-building skills. It facilitates the building of a shared vision for the future, enhancing unity and providing a roadmap for mutual growth, creating a sense of purpose within the relationship.


Online Relationship Coaching


With the influence of technology on relationships, online relationship coaching has become available, offering flexibility and accessibility for individuals seeking coaching services. Online couples therapy in the UK is an example of how technology has made relationship support more accessible, although it may come with drawbacks, such as the potential for procrastination and the need for effective time management. Jane sees her clients in person in Kendal, Cumbria, and also online around the world.



Renewed Hope and Client-Centered Approach


Relationship coaching rekindles hope, helping couples rediscover love, navigate challenges, and enjoy positive connections. The coaching process is entirely client-centred, focusing on problem-solving and personal fulfilment.


Visual Tools and Workshops


Some relationship coaches utilize tools like vision and goal planning, similar to those used in startups, to develop thriving and nurturing relationships.


Conflict Resolution


Conflict resolution is a key component of relationship coaching, helping couples navigate disagreements constructively. My main goal is to help you to prevent, and pre-empt conflict and to give you the tools to deal with it effectively when it does happen.


Relationship coaching provides constructive conflict resolution tools and techniques and explores ways to deepen emotional and physical intimacy. This includes assistance in developing conflict resolution skills and supporting the development of healthy boundaries.


In conclusion, relationship coaching offers a multitude of benefits, from improving communication and emotional intimacy to fostering personal growth and conflict resolution. Whether through in-person sessions or online couples coaching in the UK, couples or family members can find the support they need to build a stronger, more fulfilling partnership.


I would love to meet with you to discuss your situation and how coaching could help you. If you would potentially like to work with me take the first step and book your complimentary consultation today.


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